This is required by law because every unexpected or unexplained death must be carefully investigated. 

The Police attend the scene where the person died to begin an investigation into the cause of death. As part of this process, they are required to collect information and may speak with whānau, friends, or other people connected to the person. All unexpected deaths, including suspected suicide deaths, must be formally reported to the coroner. 

This process can feel deeply personal and, at times, intrusive – especially when you are still in shock or overwhelmed with grief. Please know that the Police are not there to judge, but to follow a legal process that helps determine what happened.

As part of their investigation, the Police may need to look at the personal belongings of the person who died, such as their mobile phone, computer or other items. If they do need to take anything, those items will be returned once the investigation is complete. If a note was left behind, the Police may take that as well. If it’s meaningful to you, you can ask for a copy of the note while the investigation is ongoing, and request the original be returned when possible. You can also ask for the name of the Police contact person so you can keep informed. 

The official process can be distressing, and it’s okay to feel upset, confused, or angry. Whānau Māori can ask for an iwi liaison officer to be present. This is someone who understands and respects tikanga Māori and can help uphold the mana of your whānau during this difficult time.